Most couples avoid discussing their sex life and expressing sexual desires. Lack of communication in this regard can affect your long-term relationship and can lead to an unsatisfactory sex life. Here are some discussions you should have with your partner about sex.
How much do you experience?
You are two different people and it is perfectly normal for you to like different things. So, you have to experiment: you do things to his liking that you may not have done before and vice versa.
It’s a good idea to set out from the beginning what your gender limits are and what you wouldn’t agree to do. Maybe your boyfriend likes the sensations offered by anal sex, and you don’t want to try. You need to communicate this to him and explain his choice for a better understanding.
What you like and what you don’t!
As I said above, there are certain techniques or sexual positions that you like, but your boyfriend does not. Therefore, in order to avoid situations in which one of you is not satisfied after sexual intercourse, it is good to discuss.
Either you can talk before sex or after sex. Tell him what you liked and didn’t like and ask your partner to do the same. Thus, next time, you will both know how to behave and how to go to each other on the heights of pleasure.
What if you don’t feel like it?
Daily stress, eating or taking certain medications can affect a person’s libido. It’s okay if, at certain times, you don’t feel like having sex and leave it at another time.
Explain to your boyfriend that this is not the right time for sex and he will definitely understand, especially if this does not happen very often.
Sexual problems
There are people who experience certain sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction in men, or vaginal dryness in women. These problems must be solved in time and without embarrassing each other if you want the relationship to be long-lasting and not to have quarrels on this subject.